Frequently Asked Questions

“How do I know if Luis is the right coach for me?”

I know it can be sort of terrifying to start working with someone new. I’m so confident that you’ll get the results you’re looking for that I’m offering you a 100% money back guarantee. If you decide, after the first session, that you’re not completely satisfied, I’ll return every penny of your money.

This is unheard of! You won’t find another relationship coach or therapist who is willing to give you all your money back AFTER you’ve done a 90 minute session. I want you to have results in your relationship.

Now, there’s no excuse for waiting to get the support you need.

By the end of our first session, all you need to do is let me know you feel this work isn’t for you and you’ll get your money back.

“Which program is right for me?”

Consider what results you want and choose one of the three programs below:

The Reconnection Program is for you if:

  • You want to feel more connected to yourself and your partner.
  • You are looking for more fun and play in your relationship.
  • You want more passion.
  • You’re looking to deepen trust in your relationship.
  • You want to work on a few smaller issues and know you can do it in just a few sessions.
  • Your communication works well, but you want to work out a few kinks and get from good to great.

The Communication Program is for you if:

  • You have recurring issues come up in your relationship that you’re not able to talk about.
  • You have a hard time opening up to your partner or getting them to open up.
  • There are certain topics that you and your partner can’t talk about without getting into arguments.
  • You have secrets that you’ve been keeping from your partner or you feel your partner is keeping secrets from you.
  • You have a hard time asking for what you need.
  • You feel like your partner doesn’t understand you.
  • You feel like you lose yourself in the relationship.
  • You have a hard time holding boundaries.

The Brake Patterns Program is for you if:

  • You’re ready to end old patterns.
  • You feel like your relationship is stuck in a rut.
  • The same old issues keep coming up.
  • You feel like your relationship is at the end of it’s rope.
  • You feel confused and hopeless about how to move forward.
  • Past hurts keep coming up in the relationship.
  • You’re ready to stop having blowout arguments.
  • You’re committed and want your relationship to last.
  • You or your partner needs to open up and you haven’t found a way to do so.

“Can I take any of the programs by myself, or do I have to have a partner?”

All of the programs can be done alone or with a partner.

If you’re solo, you can choose any of the programs you want. If you’re looking to connect deeper, have better communication tools, or break old patterns, just choose the program that most resonates with you.

You can apply these tools to all aspects of your life and relationships. If you have a partner, the price is the same as it is if you’re solo.

“What if I don’t live in your area?”

All my content is delivered to you online, and all my coaching session are done over the phone or via Skype. I find phone and Skype sessions even more effective than in person.

You have the freedom of doing the sessions from the comfort of your own home (and where most of the challenges are fresh so we can really dive deep quickly.)

“When can I get started?”

Which ever program you choose, we can get started right away.

As soon as you go through the checkout process, you’ll be directed to my online calendar. You’ll be able to choose the most convenient times for you and or your partner.

If you enroll now, you’ll receive some special bonuses that I am only offering at this time.

“What if I can’t afford it?”

If it wasn’t for the money, is this something you would want to do? If your answer is “yes” then I highly encourage you to give yourself this gift. When you follow your inspirations, the money will come.

You’re not taking any risk by signing up, because I’m offering a 100% money back guarantee. If after our first session you’re not satisfied and want a refund, I’ll give you all your money back.

No one else in my field offers this type of guarantee. That’s how confident I am that you’ll benefit from our time together.

Our intimate relationship impacts all areas of life–one of those being work life. Believe it or not, current studies have shown that happy couples are more successful in their work life. This is especially true for men–when men are happy at home they are more successful at work. And stress at home impacts performance at work.

How much money have you already spent on therapy, books, coaching, and classes?

It’s time to stop wasting energy and money and get results. Also, I’ve included a very affordable payment plan to ensure that you can do this.

“What if I don’t have the time?”

How many hours of arguing or relationship stress have you already struggled through?

Stop wasting time and get the results you desire.

You want to break out of old patterns so you can deeply connect with your partner  right?

You’ll have all the tools you need to have the happy relationship you want. Once you claim a program, you’ll be able to easily schedule the times that work best for you using my online calendar.

Many of my clients complain that they’re depressed, disconnected, and unhappy. Shortly into our work, they say they feel completely different. Some of my clients have told me, “Luis, I’ve had this issue for years, and in one session you made it go away.”

“What if I miss a session?”

I offer a 24 hour cancellation policy. If for any reason you can’t make a session, just let me know at least 24 hours ahead of time, and you can easily reschedule through my online calendar.

“I can just figure this out on my own, right?”

Many people tune into my podcast, videos and blog to improve their relationship. While these tools help, there are three missing elements that truly create lasting results.

With my coaching you get the education PLUS support, accountability, and another person who can see what you can’t.

What I’m offering in these programs is the very best information, tools, and skills collected over the last seven years.

Honestly and from my heart, I wish for you to feel all the love you’ve always wanted.

I’m offering a very clear, fast, effective, and risk-free way to do that.

It’s time to deeply connect with your partner.

I know there are other services out there that promise to help you with your relationship challenges. Many of these services take a ton of time and end up costing thousands of dollars, and they’re still not offering all of the important elements you need to get the results you want.

If you were to try to figure this out on your own, you could easily spend the rest of your loving life trying make it work.

The opportunity to break out of old patterns and deeply connect with your partner is truly priceless. Wouldn’t you agree?

Having worked with so many other systems out there, I know I could easily charge over $5,000 for all of my programs.

The programs are worth that much, too. Where else can you get risk-free coaching with a money back guarantee? And once you’re finished, you’ll have the relationship you’ve been wanting.

I want to see you succeed. I want you to be able to easily communicate about the hard stuff, end your cycles of struggle, and intimately connect with your partner.

The longer you wait to make a change, the more you struggle, and the more that struggle affects the lives of you and those you love.

That is why I’m offering my programs at an incredibly low price.

All the programs are a very small investment compared to what you will receive as long-term results.

From my heart of hearts, know that it is actually costing you more NOT to do this program.

I’ve seen hundreds of couples frustrated, confused, and hopeless about how to get their relationships  to change.

I want something different for you. And I know you can have it. I’ve seen these systems work!

Let me help you have everything you need so you can easily connect with your partner and get the love you want.

Please know this program is NOT for you if:

  • You’re not committed to creating a loving relationship.
  • You don’t feel like you need help and want to figure it out on your own.
  • You could care less about communication, connection and intimacy in your relationship.
  • You’re unwilling to change.
  • Your relationship isn’t a priority in your life.

This Program is Definitely for you if:

  • You are committed to love.
  • You want connection.
  • You believe love is worth giving it your all.
  • You are interested in learning and feel ready to end the struggle.


I’m excited to work with you!

If You Want Lasting Love, You’re in the Right Place!

Just choose the results you want…

What People Are Saying…

“It wasn’t until we worked with Luis that our relationship started to change for the better.”

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“For so long I felt this disconnected with my husband. I tried different ways to connect with him and was failing. We both feel that Luis understood our true relationship issues. Luis didn’t waste any time, we got down to the root of things and were able to learn and practice skills to bring to our relationship. I don’t think words can describe how amazing Luis is. His gifts as a marriage coach are beyond expectations. I don’t think I would be as happy as I am with my husband without the guidance of ”.

Jamie Wright

“He gave me the tools to enhance my performance as a husband.”

Tyler Wright

“Luis gave me hope of a better life and future.”

“I came to Luis after I hit a wall in my life. I found myself all alone with no one to blame but myself. But even after I lost myself and had pushed away my family, Luis gave me hope of a better life and future. I would recommend Luis to anyone who is struggling to find themselves and their happiness.”


“Let me save you the trouble of navigating through uncharted waters in search of an outstanding couples coach and highly recommend Luis.”

“Okay counseling in general and particularly couples counseling are incredibly personal and, for some, can be potentially a very scary endeavor. For me, just the thought of searching and identifying a competent counselor was a daunting task. Let me save you the trouble of navigating through uncharted waters in search of an outstanding couples coach and highly recommend Luis. He teaches skills that are applicable immediately and promote positive feedback for notably improved communication. His effectiveness through role playing will leave an immediate impact as well. We are both thoroughly impressed!”

Rich Folk

“Luis helped me see that I really am doing a great job as a Mother and everything is going to be alright.”

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“Luis helped me get perspective. It’s hard raising two teenage daughters, Luis helped me see that I really am doing a great job as a Mother and everything is going to be alright. I hated asking for help, but getting support made things so much easier. I am blessed to be surrounded by amazing people.”

Aileen DeLeon

“If you’re truly ready for a positive change, then I highly recommend reaching out to Luis…”

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“Luis’s coaching style is dynamic and authentic! Each one of our meetings was filled with fresh perspective, well given praise and wise guidance. If you’re truly ready for a positive change, then I highly recommend reaching out to Luis Congdon. He’s the real deal!”

Matt Peters

“We were able to feel safe enough with each other to communicate openly and clearly and to ask for what we needed.”

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“Luis’ ability to stay present, to tune into, and identify our old relational patterns was spot on. He quickly helped us recognize our blind spots. We were able to feel safe enough with each other to communicate openly and clearly and to ask for what we needed. That was invaluable as we move forward.”

Raya Loffe

“Luis was confident, calm, attentive, very caring, yet very honest, blunt and with little held back.”

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“Luis has really helped me. I love that he didn’t simply give instructions or advice but mostly just brought awareness to our patterns, taking turns putting attention on each of the partners and mirroring their behavior. It was both real and easy to hear. It didn’t feel like he was holding back but the message was delivered very tactfully with love and compassion. I’ve felt for some time that an outside perspective was needed in order to get through some rough stuff in my relationship and I’m so happy Luis was the one to do it. He felt incredibly trustworthy because he wasn’t just shoving info down my throat. Luis was confident, calm, attentive, very caring, yet very honest, blunt and with little held back. I could tell he was there to help and not just make us feel good. He didn’t give us an easy answer, just some great tools for us to use on our own.”


“My Husband is a different person, he is a lot more attentive”

“We have been using our new skills and our communication is completely different. We could never thank Luis enough for how much he helped us. We definitely still have our moments, but we manage to work through them a lot faster than we used to. We have not had any what we call “blowouts”. My husband is a different person in so many ways. He is a lot more attentive and when he gets upset and starts to overpower the room, he recognizes it now. I have learned to let him feel his feelings and not take care of him so much. I feel so much more free now, and he does too. We cannot thank Luis enough, I really do not know where our relationship would be if he did not come into our lives. Luis has helped us so much and we will forever be grateful.”


“Luis is the best one out there.”

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“Luis has changed my life. He has helped me clear my mind and has given me the necessary tools to rebuild my confidence, self-esteem, and feel more motivated. It was hard to find a good coach. In my opinion, Luis is the best one out there.”

Abraham, Father of Two

“Luis pulled all our patterns out and laid them out for us to see so we could stop repeating them.”

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“I think of counselor and I think; Great, another person to say ‘maybe this relationship isn’t healthy and you should focus more on yourself.’ I was so afraid of the idea of my partner and I talking to Luis about our relationship because, the truth was…we needed help. We were in an agonizing, constant cycle. To be honest, I was in denial but felt almost helpless and couldn’t think of a better option. Luis has an accepting presence about him right off the bat. He brought such a nice mixture of humor and professionalism to the session, because after all, our “problems” became laughable after mulling over the reasons why we do what we do. Luis made everything so clear, I don’t know how but he really reflected all of our feelings back to us, as if he were a two way mirror. Luis pulled all our patterns out and laid them out for us to see so we could stop repeating them. What came out of our work with Luis is: Acceptance of change and growth, super clear understanding of what each of us wants in the relationship, and most of all a new appreciation for one another on our journeys side by side. Thank you so much Luis for the guidance, gentleness and pure openness you have shown us in our most vulnerable times.”

Kae Jordan

“My relationship is stronger than it has ever been and growing everyday!”

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“I had been struggling with acceptance and misguided emotional responses in my relationship with my partner. Luis listened to me, found the compassion necessary to understand my pain and helped guide me to a place of peace in myself and to find that love that transcends my complete understanding. No other human being has ever had such an effect on my psyche. My relationship is stronger than it has ever been and growing everyday!”

Frederick Wright

“He helped me through one of the hardest times of my life…”

“From the first time I saw Luis I knew there was something up with him, something really good. I felt comfortable with him almost immediately and confided in him entirely. He helped me through one of the hardest times of my life, and made every day feel spiritual to me. He taught me how to live it up, instead of down. Best person I think I’ve ever met, hands down.”

Payton Milton

“Helped us bridge those gaps in a moment of crisis…”

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“Recently, when one of my teens started to have some issues with risky behaviors and self-identity, I contacted Luis both for advice and to reach out to my son. Luis responded right away and was able to engage with him in a way that we as his parents couldn’t. He helped him verbalize some of his feelings and frustrations and worked with him to come up with strategies to make positive changes. He helped us understand some of the ways we could help our son too, while maintaining his confidentiality. He really helped us bridge those gaps in a moment of crisis and continues to be a mentor and coach to our son.”

Margaret Kramer, Social Worker

“People felt inspired to connect more deeply with themselves, others and their life path after working with Luis!”

“Luis led several workshops at a conference I helped organize. He was fabulous! He helped us kick off the conference in a heart-centered way that really played out over the weekend – it was notably one of the more peaceful, friendly and connected gatherings we have had. We received many positive reviews of his workshops – people felt inspired to connect more deeply with themselves, others and their life path after working with Luis!”

Amanda Aylin, Program Director

“Luis is a stupendous couples’ coach.”

“I met Luis Congdon when we both worked as couples’ coaches for the Loving Families program. During coaching sessions, we worked on the couples’ desired goals. The interaction provides a space to listen, answer and ask questions so that couples are clear about what you want. We also addressed limits or blocks, identifying obstacles and helped move couples toward taking action. As coaches we provided any needed parenting education and provided referrals and recommendations to community resources. In addition, we kept a written summary of each coaching session. Luis is a stupendous couples’ coach.”

Fely Oropeza, Benefits Coordinator at Milliman

“He invests his heart into his work, and because of this you will have no problem seeing his authenticity.”

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“I have had the distinct pleasure of hiring and collaborating with Luis on a wide array of projects for the last 5 years. He has brought such a unique and wonderful energy to all these ventures. I remember his passion and ability to focus the most. It was very reassuring. It’s really special that Luis has an unique ability to work with such a wide range of demographics; everywhere from big groups, to individuals or couples. Including workshops at elementary schools, to teenage mothers groups, to high level professionals, including interviewing several New York times best seller author, and celebrities. It is also important to note that Luis is very careful as to who and what he works on. If he is passionate about a project or goal I would want him on my team. He invests his heart into his work, and because of this you will have no problem seeing his authenticity.”

Joseph DiStefano

“My depression has lifted and my business is taking off, the way I interact with others has changed.”

“I am deeply touched by Luis’s care and ability to assist me in moving forward. I have done a lot of traditional counseling and am well aware of why I have emotional blocks but I was still stuck with some old patterns & depression. Luis is quickly facilitating the shift I need to feel strong and whole when dealing with others in all my relationships business, personal & spiritual. Each session we focus on an aspect that is troubling me to shift it to another viewpoint with a commitment to follow through. My depression has lifted and my business is taking off, the way I interact with others has changed. I highly recommend him to others wanting healing and a fresh breeze in their lives. He is much more than a coach and I am honored to be working with him.”

Jo. Lowenthal, Website and Graphic Designer

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